In a word, I am REAL. Strong but gentle, confident, trustworthy, intelligent, and natural. I am my own man, with rich inner world and subtle, appealing sense of humor. I enjoy my work but it does not run my life. The true measure of a person comes from who we are inside, not abilities or special talent. For some reason, people are drawn to me easily. I'm a good listener, man of strong character, kind and helpful, with good insight and wisdom. Above all I am a GIVER, looking for the same in HER. It can mean so much for the ones who understand how it draws souls closer. Will we be the ones? If so, I think it would be undeniable!
Despite my age I am young in spirit, mind, and body, with qualities rarely found these days. My woman will see this. She will find a new meaning of happiness, and love that breathes life into her soul each day! I know what love IS and what its NOT, and the formula for family happiness. Manly, active, reliable and well-grounded, these also describe me. I have an intelligent wit, and though I do not work at making people laugh, they do anyway) If you seek wealth or status, look elsewhere. It means nothing to me, nor the constant hype of the media world. I live comfortably without slaving for a materialistic lifestyle. I thrive on good conversation, passionate yet tender when it is no longer time for talk. I love the outdoors, having spent much of my life enjoying its beauty. I'm sure it will be even better with my only one.
The spark of physical chemistry is one thing---but for me our mental, emotional, and spiritual connection is not less important. My girl understands this, and wants it too. Likely she will have plenty of traits I adore, but mainly she looks for deep love, pure and simple, with nothing superficial about her.
You are not reading the words of an ideal guy –– just a one woman man, looking for the right connection.
Ideal match description:
Ideal match??...funny words. Two people have to build a relationship, with its ups and downs. Only then can they understand what makes them ideal for each other. Before this, there is much to check, much to learn about how well they match. For me, having similar values is a must. Is open communication important to you? I think it precedes everything good that follows. Relationships are not easy. But when you care about each other, you try to work as a team, doing whatever it takes to keep a happy union. But it is good work! The one for me felt that way long before reading these words. She is mature enough to understand the effort involved in building something strong and beautiful. I imagine her as kind, genuine, smart, respectful, supportive, warm and affectionate. Comfortable with her own femininity, even able to be playful at times. It is not so easy to win my heart, but I am drawn to this nice balance.
If you are the least bit indifferent about kissing, this is a good place to stop reading and move on. Mine are the best in the world, so I want someone who needs them, and also needs a man like me.