Not sexy but seducing, I look more like Gérard Depardieu than Brad Pitt.
I believe I have a very accommodating character and I am naturally very positive. Family, friends and colleagues know me as always smiling, even when things are a bit more difficult.
Be aware that my work in IT requires that I leave home very regularly up to 50% of the time.
I am a gourmet who loves to cook (that is the reason for my extra kg) and I enjoy good wine from time to time.
I have also some volunteer activities that I perform during the weekend, my way to give back to society.
Please read description of the person I am looking for to avoid any misunderstanding.

I am looking for an attractive lady who really takes care of herself, without excess: I am not really attracted by fake lips I like much more natural imperfections than artificially rebuilt beauty. My beloved should be a real lady in public but naughty in private.
I also need to know that you will accept me for my qualities (friendly, attentive to your needs and those of others, listening...) as well as by my defaults (away 30% of the time on business trips, giving back to society a few hours on weekends, my extra kilos). I will make compromises, but will not give up on everything, as you too probably.

I will not consider ladies who's age will be too far from mine, even if she is mentally and spiritually mature (preferably 42 to 56 years old)

Initially looking to know you a little before considering something more... If you want to have a chance for me to reply to your introduction letter, it will need to include clear references to my profile or my expectations of the lady I am looking for.
It is disappointing for me to see that most ladies who are sending me letters haven't read my profile carefully (if at all) and that their letters are clearly a copy/paste of one they have sent to others. Please show real interest.