Ok. So. . . my name is Tim.

The first thing I ask of you is to be honest. Please tell me why you are pursuing romance from a foreigner.

What is so wrong with men from your country that you would launch yourself into the unknown - leaving friends or family to come to my country? I do not mean to judge, it is just a hard concept for me to understand. What is your motive?

About me. . .

I am many things. Most of them contradictory, and yet I am what I am. I am a carefree joker. I am serious and contemplating. I can be dark and brooding. I can be the life of the party. I am an artist. I am a hedonist. I like poetry. I like creating, but can be destructive on occasion. I am quiet and thoughtful and yet a riot of emotions. I see beauty in darkness and darkness in beauty. I have my vices, but I celebrate not shun them. Bad is good. Wrong is fun. Life should not be experienced in part, but as a whole. The rough with the smooth. I am loving and caring, tender and gentle. I am...unusual, and yet despite my many things, I am empty. I need a soul mate, a partner who accepts my many states of being, and adds her own quirks to the mix.

About you. . .

Don’t write your first letter with some vague promises of how good a wife you will be, or how you see a vibrant future for us both. Tell me something deep and meaningful.

What is your greatest desire?
What is your greatest achievement in your eyes?
When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
What do you want to be now?
If you are not what you want to be, what has stopped you?


More about me. . .

I do not earn a huge amount of money but I get by. I recently decided to abandon my previous career and learn blacksmithing which is something I enjoy a lot more. The pay isn’t great at the moment and the work is hard and tiring, but I learn a lot. And I love it. So that’s something 😃

I own my own house and sublet to friends. One of the reasons I waited till I was 30 before pursuing my dream career was to save enough money to get the house. It was in a terrible state when I first bought it and I have spent the last 2 years rebuilding and renovating it. Now it is mine - I have built my own artistic touch into it.

I live to create wondrous things,. I have taught myself how to do leather work

More about you. . .

What was your most uncomfortable experience?
What is your greatest fear?
Tell me a secret you have never told anyone before.
When you read the word “cinnamon” what is the first thing you think of?

Invent a word and tell it to me. What does it mean?

Be Exciting
Be Unpredictable
Be Spontaneous

. . . Be the one for me.

Waiting for your letter,
Tim

My ideal partner would be a tall brunette with a wicked sense of humour and a taste for the artistic. A taste for hard rock and metal music, tattoos, piercings and lives life by the same set of morals as I do. Life isn't perfect and doesn't last forever, so you may as well have a damn good go at enjoying it! Ideals aside, I know that life doesn't throw ideal matches at each other, and with this in mind I look forward to your messages and finding out what kind of person you are. And maybe we can take it further... 😉