I am active and adventurous. A romantic by nature tinged with a little realism. I dislike conflict. Never far from smiling, perceptive, happy, optimistic, my friends say I am very kind. I enjoy nice things but am not materialistic. The kids always gathered at my place which should tell you something about me and I have many really good friends which should tell you I am a nice person. I get a little shy sometimes but do my best to beat it and it never lasts for long. I enjoy nights out, dinner, dancing, traveling, but am just as happy snuggled up at home with the right person. I am not a bad boy if you can understand that, It is difficult to explain but maybe the best way is to say that I am a gentleman and that I once knew real love and I will not settle for anything less again

I really believe that men only think they choose women, the truth is that women choose men and men accept the woman or not. But I will write what I think the woman I am searching for should be: Feminine, happy, trustworthy, honest, and gorgeous (through my eyes anyway), irresistible, fun, loving, compassionate, capable, perceptive, not necessarily in that order or she won’t be any of the above or maybe some. Who knows what makes attraction? Did I mention happy? There does need to be that instantaneous magic though, that thing where you can make me forget to breathe just by being you. Not all women want a gentleman though so please don’t write if this is you. I know you exist somewhere and we just need to find each other. It is also important that we find each other attractive, it is important that you can say “I could wake up in the morning looking at this person and feel great joy.