Well ladies it is getting to the point where I can't tell who is genuine and who is just interested in persuading me to open their letters so they make money. This is so short sighted on their part. If you are a genuine lady you will find the right man and never have to work again if you choose, or you can continue to scrape an existence out of men looking for real love. I did not get where I am today being stupid. I will not stay here on this site long if this is norm, time will tell. To the deceitful out there, enjoy your success while it lasts, for it will be short lived and your looks will fade. I'm at a point in my life where I have most of what I've ever wanted and all of what I need. I'm looking for a woman to share life's treasures for eternity or for just a moment if need be. I would love to find a woman that would be content with the man she fell in love initially and not try to change the man into something different later on. It really doesn't work anyway. About me? I'm very active. I play hockey a couple times a week. I hit the gym weekly. I have my own place here in Toronto. There's plenty of room for the next important person in my life. I can't say I love constant emailing and messaging. I would much rather meet in person. That's the only real way to get to know me. I'm not a shy person, well maybe a bit in the beginning, but then lookout! Overall I'm looking for honesty. You have to be honest with yourself to be honest with your partner. I think I'm getting a little too heavy here, so I'll stop while I'm ahead.

I feel that I must add this to my profile. I am reading the emails and I'm falling behind, I apologize, but it is not just looks that I'm interested in, I must feel something in the message as well. I visited Odessa before in October 2009, I am not interested in Pro daters that are out for a good time at my expense. What I am embarking on is a very serious journey that is not for the faint of heart. Initially it will be a fairy tale, but then it will be all business and expense. It will require that you are willing to leave your country to be with the man you love and re-establish yourself in a foreign land. This will require a level of trust and faith that you may not be able to give unconditionally. I was involved with a Lithuanian woman living in the UK for 12 months. I flew back and forth every month. In the end when we had decided that it was time for her to move to Canada, she was unable to do so. She stated that although she loved me, she could not leave her established life behind to depend on me solely for her well being. Di-sect this as you may, but my point is, that this ideal that you hold too in your head, may require more sacrifice then you have contemplated. How serious are you about finding true love? Do you have what it takes? Ultimately I'm looking for someone self confident, healthy, intelligent and is willing to come with me to Canada where we'll explore the world using Canada as our home base and possibly the foundation for our new family.