caring familyman,1.98 mtr.tall, big strong man, not fat, love kids,my woman is my queen,hard working,patient,calm, i like to go out with my wife and the kids, i can only love one woman,likes the nice things in live, they can be as little like a smile in the morning by the awaking
I am 53 y.o.,but from friends I directly may say that I look no older than 42/43 y.o., for you to decide. I am not a player, I look serious for a long term relationship with a modern, sexy woman(not vulgair), one who knows how to dress for any occasion, one who knows how to make a man happy, and I mean by this not only sexeual.
I am not a millionair, I am not a prince on a white horse, I am not a "chippendale", I am not Mr. Perfect, I am a real caring man, one who can make mistakes, like you.... but I am looking for my queen to getting old together.
I know I can give you a secure nice future, but only with mutual love and understanding. If you think you can come to me for the holydays, I promiss you a fine comfortable live and we can see if we like eachother and you can see how your future will look like.
Although we have in Holland economic-crises too right now ( I miss many money in my salary, but the good times will return). I still think I have enough for a good family future, so try your luck with me.

i invite the woman to spent her holidays in holland with me, so we can see if we match......and she can see what her future will be.

update 25-03-09... many many thanks to all the ladies who send smile's to me, who placed me on their hot-list and who write me letters.....to all i am saying very sorry, but its impossible for me to answer you all, also very sorry to all the young girls/woman, but I look for a woman from about 33 years young,but to be honest there are a few exceptions....my compliments to this dating-site, I never had so much beautyfull woman in my inbox, its very hard to make a choice.
But please ladies d'not be angry if you not get the answer you waiting for.
Warm greetings.....Wijnand.
update 01-05.09: Because I cannot write back to every woman's letter, I want to make the following statement:.....Because I am busy(next to my work) to rebuild/renovate my house, together with professional building people, I cannot be missed/cannot go away from here to go to my woman (to be). That's why I put here a open invitation to the woman who dare to come to me, for the holidays. I have a guestroom ready for you. I not send money to you for visa or trip or whatever(this is for the scammers), but I will do everything to help you with what you need to get the visa.And I give you back the money you need to come here, in cash, the moment I see you before me. I hope on mutual understanding and otherwise it will reduce many letters, so the real woman who still have interest stay over. Its not to hurt any one's feelings and not say I am not generous, because I know I am. So we will see how much of you still have interest.