Dearest Reader,
Something must be wrong: The age that comes in my profile got to be wrong because I am "48", - which is a lie, but when you meet with me, you will agree. I need no batteries, no Red Bulls, no Viagra, no nothing.
I am looking for a Real Woman with some life experience, with a good education. Well,- a woman has some knowledge that can be useful in Spain, Brazil, and internationally (I am a Swede in Spain and Brazil).
The best would be that you speak at least "so-and-so" good English and that you learn Spanish and Brazilian a little by little.
I need an organized woman, not one without her own funds. You've got to be emotionally and mentally balanced, but still a bit "crazy". You must not be "too" young and not a person who likes a "take-it-easy-sofa/armchair-life". I need NO homemaker, no cleaning woman, not one that waits at home with dinner for me! What I mean is that you must be professionally active. You can not be "a little stupid girl" or "a half-dead pink elephant". You must not want a baby: This world is not that "inviting" for a new child, - adoption, ok. I have had a vasectomy (my ex-wife got a mental illness, the rest later, if at all interesting), so no new kids will come into this world, without a drastic act. Quite good actually! I have been a single father since my kids were 5 and 8, now totally independent boys, living their own lives. I am good with kids of all ages.
You must be intelligent, sharp, fast, active, sexual, passionate, erotic, romantic, and sensual. You must be a "problem solver", not a "problem maker". A lady who thinks a bit deeper, who can analyze and make her own conclusions, not following the general opinion and influencers. NO tattoos! If you have, - and want to be with me, you have to take them all away. No blown-up lips. NO silicon breasts! You better like nature, the sea, beaches, the countryside, snow, sea/water and wind- sports. You must love to "take good care" of me in all different ways, as I guarantee that I will do the same with you. Sounds like I lack modesty but, - I know who I am, and I am a Good Man, deserving a Good Woman, who got to be that good that she deserves me. I was born in Sweden, and have many years abroad; a multinational guy who speaks 4 languages. I am tough when needed, sensitive, demanding, hard-working, active, strong, fast, a leader type, passionate in all I do, inventive, romantic, 110 % faithful, and a good friend to loyal people (only!).
A guy who pays attention to details. I am a non-smoker, I drink very little, but I like wines, never pure alcohol or drinks, and never drugs. Divorced for many years.
I am perfectly fit, in good shape, like I said; "48", and in full speed; skiing, surfing, sailing, biking, roller-skating, canoeing, and hiking. I like cooking, and I do it well, interested in gastronomy. Healthy foods only; veggies, fish, fruit. I have lost interest for meat … did not take any decision,. But it just do not fancy me any longer.
I am orderly, organized, and economical; not tight, but I do look after the money to not be wasted "for nothing". No "stupid" fashion, very little "eating out" at fancy and expensive places. I prepare super nice food at home, very nicely laid tables with flowers and candles on the roof terrace that
has mountain and sea views, with nice music. It can hardly be a better place to be, better than in any 5-star establishment. I like only necessary decoration, - no "kitsch" or  "posh" things. I like to arrange excellent lunches and dinners at home with close friends and alone with you. I need no cook but, if you like cooking, super, fine, -let's cook together! Practical things: You have to understand the complexity of moving out of your country; relocating, adapting to, and living in Spain, Brazil and other countries too. Here the lifestyle is different, like almost everything. 320 sunny days and a lovely climate and microclimate.
I play guitar, and some piano, love music, especially jazz, saxophone, trumpet … guitar ... And other arts of all kinds. Interested in almost everything, an investigator, entrepreneur, anthropologist, and a totally free thinker.
As a professional "mover & shaker" I am rarely static but at the same time; I do like some tranquil times too: Slow evenings with nice conversations, candlelight dinners, leading to erotic events. Just doing "nothing" ... that’s not me! I am multi-faceted and active. Knowing my values, also knowing my needs, what I want, and what I must have; most of it is described here. I am not suffering from any hidden and false modesty or shyness; I know my values and I deserve a good woman!
The love I am looking for has to be realistic, and have "all" the basics needed. You have to be mature in your head!  ONLY if you really do feel you have the talent, capacity, strength, desire, patience, capacity to love, that you are sexual, plus some more … Please laugh! Yes ... I am a bit demanding, but I sound tougher than I am ... so, - be happy! - Then it is easy to be the Woman I cannot be without. - If you can stand a real man like me, - get in touch right now, please!
- I am totally transparent.
Take note that I will never go shopping with you! I wouldn't say I like it, I can say that I do not like shopping at all ... To go shopping alone is a good opportunity for you to be without me for a while!
Ahhh, and shop with your own credit/debit card.
Love is ONE thing, not too difficult to generate, as all comes to learning to live together. I am sure we can use our electrochemical forces to produce deep and meaningful passion, - use that in the learning process, - learn to love. I do not believe in “falling” in love … Learning lasts.
That you are flexible and dynamic and can re-train and perhaps accept another job than the one you have today; be able to adapt. Or, that you can be professionally active here with what you do back in your country.
Life is tough and especially now, so that you can work is a demand, that you are/become independent and with me only because I am a good man for you.
Me, a "terrible" man? Well, - NO, - I just happen to know what I want, deserve, need, and shall have.
No "blah, blah, blah", - I like it all straight off! No masses of letters. Actually, I want only paper letters or telegrams. As a start.
I will NOT go and visit you in your country, - definitely not, as I will NOT live there.
You will live here and in Brazil, you must come here first for an "inspection trip"; find out that I am as good as I say I am, that it is lovely here, arrange a job and all the "little things" which just have to be in place for a happy and safe life.
Cheers!
Mats

I am a very frank and direct Real Man, - of course, without hurting!
I want NO "mass messages" please;
No stupid content, no "copy/paste" type of letter! I just dislike blow-up lips, silicone breasts, and tattoos. Those are no/no-nos for me.
I want style and class. It is very important for you to know that the age that comes here is NOT my age! I am 48, - which is a lie, but I need no batteries, no Redbulls, no Viagra, no nothing, just a real woman.
When you write to me, you MUST have read my DESCRIPTION FIRST!!!
If you have a short Profile/Description, please redo it and write a lot about yourself.
as I did about myself here!
Please tell me about YOU, just you!
I need NO "Baby Dolls" and no "Barbies"!
If you like to go shopping, use my credit card, eat at expensive restaurants, stay with your friends, or watch TV; that's not really what I want, - so don't write to me if that is your main concern.
- I need a "deeper" Woman!
I need an intelligent, sharp, smart, communicative, and well-educated Real Woman. You also have to be passionate, sexual, erotic, and a bit "half crazy". Mentally well-balanced! A natural lady with makeup, when needed. You can, and do take initiative, and understand what it is to really LEARN to love a real man. I will LEARN to love you.
You need to know or understand what it is to live abroad, far from family and friends, the hard job is to make new friends, understand and adapt to a new culture, learn a new language, study, fight, assimilate, and accept a new way of living. I need you to be educated; "well-groomed" and with some class and style too, not "new rich" superficial styles and glitter; I want you to be simple and genuine!
Before anything; read about what it takes to work in your profession in an EU country! Or, that you are prepared to retrain and do another job. I do have ideas and proposals for you, very serious ones. You have to be self-going, motivated, and a person of action, so we can live as equals! What can you do here for a living; a job, - what can you do and what do you want to do? Please, tell me what you want out of your life with me, what you can do to make us happy/happier, to live a life worth mentioning. Such things interest me a lot! Your hobbies, interests, and sports.
I will do all I can for you to develop them and have a lot of fun plus know more! Please talk about yourself in-depth, your "little secrets".
I need a Real Woman who can stand on her OWN feet, and exchange her needs of support and protection with me; a woman who is active, with her own initiative.
You have to be able to hold conversations with content both at home and in an official environment.
I need a Real Woman who ONLY has super serious intentions for me and herself. I am not a social worker or a Sugar Daddy, - I am a Real MAN needing a Real Woman. You have to work, do become independent.
I am ONLY here for serious reasons.
I will NOT write 15 letters, I will not write fifteen letters, - in fact, I think only one is enough. I will not pay fifty USD to get your email address.
NOTHING is like a direct meeting. Chemo-electrical vibration, aura, charisma, eyes, smells, touches, voices ... and I repeat; LEARN to love. It does not come "just like that".
So, if you want it, start to arrange this possible love NOW!
Ciao,
Mats