Dearest Reader, I am O N L Y looking for a Real Woman, so, NO sweet LITTLE BABY DOLLS from 18 to 35!
I need a Real Woman with life experience, with a good education. Could be a doctor, dentist, nurse, higher economic- or a juridical education, engineer, realtor, entrepreneur, something useful. If any other education or job, - you must be prepared to re-train. Coronavirus has wiped out some earlier options. If you work with nails, hair, in the beauty industry, I can tell you that Costa del Sol is full of them and you got to be extraordinary good and unique to make it here, - plus speak a minimum of "so-and-so" good English.
I need an organized woman, not without her own funds. She shall be emotionally and mentally balanced but still a bit "crazy". If you do not know "quite good" English, - be prepared to do that investment in yourself, work hard, and fast become fluent in English. Plus later, you have to learn Spanish. That can be done type; "little-by-little". The final result must be that you speak good English, "ok" good Spanish, and your langauge. You can have max. one child coming with you. - I am very good with kids. You must not be younger than 34 and not ready for a "take-it-easy-sofa/armchair-life", I need NO home-maker! What I mean is that you can be mature but you must not look and act as a pensionair, - NEITHER as "a little stupid girl" or "a half-dead pink elephant". You must not want a baby: This world is not that "inviting" for a new child, - adoption, well - ok. I have made a vasectomy (my ex-wife got a mental illness, the rest later if at all interesting), so no kids will come without a drastic act. Quite good actually! I´ve been a single father since my kids were 5 and 8, - now totally big and intependet boys.
You must be intelligent, sharp, fast, active, sexual, passionate, erotic, romantic, and sensual. If a bit artistic, fantastic, - also logic and a bit philosophic. You must be a "problem solver", not a"problem maker". A lady who thinks a bit deeper, who can analyse and make her own conclusions, not following the general opinionmakers, and influencers. You shall like nature, the sea, beaches, the countryside, snow and wind sports. You must love to "take good care" of me in all different ways, as I will guaranty that I will do the same with you. Sounds that I lack modesty but, - I know who I am and I am a Good Man, deserving a Good Woman, who deserves me. I am born in Sweden, have many years abroad; a multinational, speaking 5 languages. I am tough and hard when needed, sensitive, demanding, hard-working, active, strong, fast, a leader type, passionate in all I do (in love too), inventive, romantic, sexual, faithful, a good friend to loyal people (only!). Also romantic, a guy who pays attention to details. I am a no-smoker, I drink very little and I like wines, seldom pure alcohols or drinks, and never drugs. Divorced for many years, Both my boys are intelligent, active, handsome, independent, communicative, international, and just good, now living in their own homes. I have no problem becoming a “Father” for a child belonging to the Woman I need. OR, - equally well; no kids! I have said that I have made vasectomy because my ex-wife got a mental disorder so; the last years with her, no more kids were wanted, - that's why, - more to be told later, perhaps.
I am perfectly fit, in good shape, and in full speed; skiing, surfing, sailing, biking, riding, canoeing, hiking, however, - now at the gym too few days per week (hhhmmm ... lately not, because of the Corona "hysteria". I like cooking and I am a good cook, interested in gastronomy. Healthy foods only; veggies, fish, fruit. Orderly, organized, and economic; not tight but I do look after the money to not be wasted "for nothing". No "stupid" fashion, very little "eating out" at fancy and expensive places as I prepare super nice food, very nicely laid tables with flowers and candles on our roof terrace with sea views and nice music. It can hardly be a better place to be at. Better than in any 5-star establishment. I like only necessary decoration, - no "kitch" or  "posh" things. I like to give excellent lunches and dinners at home with close friends and alone with you/your Family. I need no housekeeper, no cleaning woman, no knitting woman, no cake maker, no cook but, if you like cooking; superfine, -let's cook together! Practical things: You got to understand the complexity of moving out of your country, to adapt to and live in Spain. You must have understood very well that you leave Family and friends behind. Here the lifestyle is different, like almost everything.
I play guitar, some piano, love music and other arts of all kinds. Interested in almost everything, an investigator, entrepreneur, anthropologist, and a totally free thinker.
As a professional "mover & shaker"
I am almost never static but at the same time; I do really love some tranquil tim too, slow evenings in front of the fireplace, candlelight dinners, walks. Just doing "nothing" ... ok, - but not too long a time! I am multi-faceted. Knowing my values, also knowing my needs, what I want and what I must have; most of it described here. I am not suffering from any hidden and false modesty or shyness; I know my values and I deserve the Best so you must think very well about yourself, BEFORE getting in touch!
The love I am looking for, got to be realistic, have "all" basics needed. You got to be mature in your head!  ONLY if you really do feel you have the talent, capacity, strength, desire, patients, the capacity to love, and sexuality, plus a lot more (please laugh! Yes ... I am a bit demanding but I sound tougher than I am ... so, -be happy!) - It is "easy" to be the Woman I cannot be without. - If you can stand a real man like me, - get in touch right now, please!
BUT please; do that with a VERY good description in your PROFILE; as I did here; a long introduction with details, totally sincere and with intelligent content.
If you have a child, let me know its gender, age, likes and dislikes, details, and a photo!
ALL this in your DESCRIPTION!
IF you have a child, remember that you are "only" 50 % of a Team of Two: MUST be presented in your profile from the very beginning!
If you have kids but they live by themselves, say so in your DESCRIPTION, please, - be transparent! - I am totally transparent. I don't need to hear that you like to travel, go shopping, be with your friends, candlelight dinners at fancy restaurants, and walk on the beach; that is obvious.
Take note that I will never go shopping with you! I hate it. To shop alone is a good opportunity for you to be without me for a while! I want to know how your e a l l y  are; the bad and the good, what you do and can do for a living, etc. Love is ONE thing ... a god work you really like, - is needed, definitely. That you are reflexible and dynamic and can re-train and have another job than the one you have today; adapt. Or, that you can be professionally active here with what you do back in your country.
I repeat: If you have a child, tell me how old, boy or girl, likes and dislikes, etc. Life is tough and especially now so that you can work is a demand, that you are/become independent and with me only because I am a good man for you. Also as you need to do something that makes sense. I repeat; that you are/will be financially independent and with me ONLY because I am the Best for you.
Me, a "terrible" man ...? NO, - I just happen to know what I want, deserve, need, and shall have.
No "blah, blah, blah", - I like it all straight off! No masses of letters.
I will NOT go and visit you in your country, - definitely not: As I will NOT live there.
You will live here and must come here first for an "inspection trip"; find out that I am as good as I say I am, that it is lovely here, arrange with a job and all the "little things" which just have to be in place for a happy and safe life.
Welcome!

That was some more than 8.000 characters of the 15.000 we are allowed to use here, describing ourselves.

That you write something similar, and we will avoid unnecessary job and letters to write.
Cheers!
Mats

I am a very frank and direct Real Man, - of courde, without hurting!
I want NO "mass messages" please;
no stupid content, no "copy/aste" type of a letter!
When you write to me, you MUST have read my DESCRIPTION FIRST!!!
If you have a short Profile/Description, please re-do it and write a lot about yourself;
as I did about me here!
Please do a good description about you and if you have a child; tell about age, gender and preferences, - a little of “this and that”, ok.
It is not so important to hear that you like your job, play pool with your friends and see the Discovery channel on the TV (joking, but in a serious way!). Please tell me about YOU, just you!
I need NO "Baby Dolls" and no "Barbies"! No tattoos... A woman for me needs no body-decoration, I want her "decorated" only with her female attributes as the plain woman you are. If to be decorated, it will be doing it ... with cream, honey, jam, rose petals, champagne, and my kisses.

If you like knitting, go shopping, using my credit card, eat at expensive restaurants and stay with your friends; that's not really what I want, - so don't write to me if that is your main concern.
- I need a deeper Woman!
If you write to me, please, NO mass letter or mass messages, type; "copy/paste", - it got to be to ME! Please concentrate on things that really matter: I need an intelligent, sharp, smart, communicative, and well-educated Real Woman. You also got to be passionate, sexual, erotic and a bit "half crazy". Mentally well balanced! You can and do take initiative, understand what it is to really love a real man, in the way that he does “everything” for you, with the greatest of pleasures and passion; complete love. You need to know or understand what it is to live abroad, far from family and friends, the hard job it is to make new friends, understand and adapt to a new culture, learn a new language, study, fight hard, assimilate and accept a new way of living. I need you to be educated; "well-groomed" and with some class and style too, not "new rich" superficial styles and glitter; I want you simple and genuine! Before anything; read about what it takes to work in your profession in an EU country! Or, that you are prepared to re-train and do another job. I do have ideas and proposals for you, very serious ones. You got to be self-going, motivated, and a person of action so we can live as equals! Please tell me about your education and profession. What you can do here for a living; a job, - what can you do and what do you want to do? Here, the secure job was before Corova virus a real estate agent. Now not. To arrange a meaningful job for you, after that you speak good English and "ok" Spanish will be possible. Your ideas and styles, level of culture are interesting. Tell me what you want out of your life with me, what you can do to make us happy/happier, to live a life worth mentioning. Such things interest me a lot! Your hobbies, interests, and sports.
I will do all I can for you to develop them and have a lot of fun plus know more! Please talk about yourself in-depth, all "little secrets". Please talk about you as a professional and active Woman with a deep and hopefully fantastic "inner" word too, - not only a beautiful face and a desirable body which can satisfy me and yourself (that's good too, needed, naturally!).
Tell me about your fantasies, dreams, ideas, opinions, goals, what you really wanna do. Tell me about your relationship with your child (if you have one) and how you expect your relationship to be between me and your child.
Talk about what you will do to make our marriage last and be vibrant and "crazy", mostly without frictions, - year after year, - well; forever, - that’s my target!
I need a Real Woman who can stand on her OWN feet, exchange her needs of support and protection with me;
a woman who is active, with her own initiative, who speaks "enough" English, enough so it will not be a “from zero” situation. If so, - you got to invest in private English lessons: 4 hours per day and 5 days per week until you are fluent. Homeworks with me ...
That you are prepared to learn Spanish, little by little.
You got to be mentally well balanced, be able to hold conversations with content both at home and in official ambiances.
I need a Real Woman who ONLY has super serious intentions for me and herself. I am not a social worker or a Sugar Daddy, - I am a MAN needing a Real Woman who can work hard with her profession OR, if necessary; with a new profession; as a real estate agent, for example. You must like to advance, - I will support and help you as much as I can to reach that here in Spain!
I want you to be devoted and work hard also with our relation. I want a woman to have an exciting life with, day after day, year after year, decade after decade, century after century.
I am ONLY here for serious reasons, wanting O N L Y what I have described above.
If you feel you are "the one for me", having what I want, me having what YOU need and want,
- THEN ...
Let's meet NOW!
That you come here for an "inspection, to see that all is as I have described here is as described.
I will NOT write "10's" of letters, - in fact, I think only one is enough.
NOTHING is like a direct meeting. Chemo-electrical vibration, aura, charisma, eyes, smells, touches, voices ...
NOTHING of that comes in a letter ...
So, if you want it, start to arrange this possible love NOW!
Ciao,
Mats