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It is true that we all have to consider ourselves and can in that way be called selfish. And, wanting love can certainly be seen as selfish. I want love, definitely. But, I will not allow my want for love to destroy the efforts I maintain out of friendship or profession or so fourth. Love is supposed to be a positive addition to life; not one that enables risks and illogical choices, and loss.
If you think I am selfish, well, in a way you are right. But, in other ways, you are wrong. However, my reluctance to pay is not unfounded. And, I do not think my conclusions false as regards the nature of this site or the intention of a lot of its active women. The observations I have made on this site will not be ignored, just as the intentions and motives of its active women will not be left unconsidered.
I am not a perfect person and I do not have all the answers. Sometimes I just have my beliefs and shallow conclusions. That can be hard, especially if we yearn for the comforts of knowing.
It is easy to get carried away with what we want in others.--In my life, 'the romantic figures' have been rare and have usually fealt differently than me. I am not very good at loving but I'd like to try.
Sometimes, I stop and use my heart to consider whether what I am doing is bad or good. Maybe it is a kind of 'moral orientation' or deeper grasp of my actions and behavior.--I hope you do the same thing, sometimes.
I do not know your conditions. I imagine that they are, possibly, poor and possibly unhealthy conditions. I do not know how to change that, if it is the case, nor how to verify without potentially losing my time, interest, and money. I do appluad choices in the name of love, but I think a lot of those choices can be dangerous too.
I am trying to reach out, but it seems that my efforts are futile.
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