** PLEASE READ THIS **

Before you write me, PLEASE read this!


I am seriously looking for a new life partner ..


Unlike I expected I get a lot of responses, more than I expected, more than I can answer.


Before you write me, please read my profile first. It can save us both a disappointment.


In brief:

If you are looking for a man younger than 50, please DO NOT WRITE me! I will turn 51 soon!


If you're looking for a man *without (young) children* ...

or

if you are looking for a very *handsome* man ...

or

if you are looking for a *rich* man ...

or

if you like a *macho* man who likes to go to bars ...


... Please *DO NOT* write me

Thank you!


--------- let me try Ukraine: --------

** ПРОЧИТАЙТЕ ЦЕ **

Перед тим, як написати мені, будь ласка, прочитайте це!

Я серйозно шукає нового супутника життя ..

На відміну Я чекав я отримую дуже багато відгуків, більше, ніж я очікував, більше, ніж я можу відповісти.

Перед тим, як написати мені, будь ласка, прочитайте мою першу профілю. Він може врятувати нас і розчарування.


Коротко:


Якщо ви шукаєте людини молодше 50 років, прохання не писати мені! Мені буде 51 в жовтні!


Якщо ви шукаєте людину без (молодий) дітей ...
або
Якщо Ви шукаєте дуже красива людина ...
або
Якщо ви шукаєте багата людина ...
або
Якщо вам подобаються мачо, який любить ходити по барах ...

... Будь ласка, не пишіть мені!

Спасибо!



---------- My description -------

I'm a gentle and very huggy-feely, slightly overweight man from the Netherlands, 1.8 meter, 100 kg, long hair.

I tend to be very gentle, soft and
nice (even "compliant" will fit me). I'm pretty bright, I do like humor, I can be reserved, sometimes even almost shy-ish.

What I am NOT:
I am NOT a super-resolute, bold, macho
"I Know exactly what I Want" nor am I an "I know what YOU want" kind of man..

If you're looking for a very self-convinced, very self confident, and "self-made" man, sorry, then I'm not for you.

My income and interests are in the fields of photography and hypnotherapy, and also Energy Psychology, things like EFT and TAT.
My income is low, mostly by choice. I pick up my kids out of school 3 times/week, take care of them, feed them, and them bring them back to their mother. On those day's it's impossible for me to work full time.
On the other hand... : I DO understand what it means to have kids and to take care of them...
It's been a while since I enjoyed the company of a woman, I don't go out much or things like that, I'm not a reqular bar-visitor.
I'm not a macho man, I've always been a kind of a woman-man (if you understand what I mean), and I miss female influence, female input and companion in my life.
Right now my life is a bit complex, but it will turn for the better, I'm sure.
I can not offer you a great life in luxury, but I DO offer warmth, kindness, gentleness, peace and love.

I'm looking forward to some cute and female company, I'd love to have some man-woman kind of conversations again, some simple but honest laughs, sharing experiences and so on.
Ideal match.. ? What is ideal?
Most things aren't THAT important, are they?
Anyway, since it's is asked:
I don't mind if you have kids, I have some of my own too. The color of your eyes isn't important, the color and style of your hair isn't important too. (although I slightly DO prefer long hair).
I DO fancy smart, bright, welformed, attractive, slim (athletic or skinny = ok too) type of woman, preferably not shorter than 155 cm (5'2"😉 and not longer than 170-175 cm (5'8" / 5'10"😉.
Since Dutch is my Native language, and you probably know as much of Dutch as I know of Ukrainian language, it would be nice if you handle English in an basic level.

And oh: I'm not after cheap sex or something like that: I'm pretty much OK with a not-so-frequent, shallow, trivial but pleasant and lovely long-distance email relationship to start with.