I wish to develop a relationship that will eventually lead to marriage with a Slavic woman. To describe myself, I will start by saying that if I am in the outdoors, I like to be in areas with a landscape. I also enjoy the livelihood and activity of the city also. I am easy going and understanding. I am not a complainer, and I do not degrade other people. I am proud, confidant, very hard-working, but I am not the arrogant or jealous type. I'm very well-traveled for an American with open eyes to the bigger world beyong the US borders.
I am the oldest son in my family so, emotionally, I am a giver and very patient and respect the needs of others. My parents are still married and that is something I never forget, and greatly value. I enjoy family and would rather have a few close friends than many. I want to live the European way of life which is why I am on this site. America is a good place to be free but is becoming a place so wrapped up in superficial things that we are loosing our culture. If you cut an Americans arm, the color of his blood may likely be the color of money. The Slavic people are so much more culturally rich, and, most important, have deep family values and a greater sense of self worth. I also do not think the Slavic women suffer from Gender "Confusion" like most Americans.
I like music, pets and reading for my leisure time. However I am very hard working at my life goals. I have a job that takes me overseas and have had others like it. I was raised with traditional values but at the same time, I don't think husband and wife have to be constrained to tradition as ones future sometimes calls for them to move forward in a different manner. In my future relationship, if you did something better than I did or vice versa, then it would find itself so in the unique dynamics of OUR relationship, not that of society's. Not only do I want children, but I want for them to be bi-lingual, be exchange students (at least one year) and to know both sets of grandparents.
Ideal match description:
I would like to find a woman who appreciates and respects family. Be a talkative, happy and curious woman, inquisitive to the world and in some manner, artistic. I want you to always speak Ukrainian or Russian to our children so they will be bi-lingual, whether we live in US or not. You must be feminine, caring and understanding. I would like for you to be traditional in your heart, but progressive in your mind also. I would like for you to have goals in life. You need to know that the good things we will share and that the bad things we will overcome, will only make us stronger. I want for you to want to feel soft, feel like a classy lady and to like being protected by my strengths. At the same time, you can't just be helpless; you have to have your own mind and not be afraid to tell me if something I am doing is not emotionally healthy or the best for you, our home or our family. You must also realize I want to share in the parenting of children. Any of your or our future children if we had any would be your first priority, and then my needs will come last. I can realize that after children, I may have to wait for your attention. In return for your love, my efforts, strengths and mission in life will be to cherish you, protect you, make you happy and make you feel dearly loved.
PS-I'm not judging anyone and would love to be proven wrong, but, I would rather not have someone who was ever a model for a match. I think with all that beauty you should have no problem finding someone who can appreciate you for that. I am just a normal gentleman with great exceptions to the norm. I want someone with unique beauty you could say, and frankly, I am saving myself for someone whose real beauty starts from within. I know maybe it is normal for a Slavic woman to marry someone older also. I would prefer however that someone was closer to my age. I can appreciate great experience but there is no lesson like the duration of life, which only comes with age, so, I would ask that no one write me who is in the very young or middle 20's, unless they have already been divorced.
My languages skills:
English: I am advanced in every skill German: I can read and write very well and speak on everyday topics Russian: I can read and write with a dictionary but can't speak