In a word, I am REAL. Strong but gentle, confident, honest, and natural. A true gentleman, warm and kind. I enjoy my work but I try not to let it rule my life. The true measure of a person comes from who we are inside, not ability, talent, or success. I am my own man, original and interesting, with subtle but appealing sense of humor. For some reason, people are drawn to me easily. My friends find always find a good listener in me, a man wise about life and perceptive about people. Above all I'm a GIVER, looking for someone similar. It can mean so much for the ones who understand how it draws two souls closer. Will we be "the ones"? If so, it will be undeniable!
Manly, intelligent, reliable, romantic, understanding and helpful...these also describe me. I know what love IS and what it's NOT, and the formula for family happiness! I thrive on good conversation, passionate yet tender when it is no longer time for talk. Despite my age I am young in spirit, mind, and body, with qualities rarely found these days. My woman will see this. She will find a new meaning of happiness, and love that breathes life into her soul each day! If you seek wealth or status, look elsewhere. It means nothing to me. I live comfortably without slaving for a materialistic lifestyle. It would be nice to find someone active, who likes keeping fit and doing things together. One last thing.....the mental and emotional connection is not less important to me than physical chemistry! I believe the woman for me already knows this, and how it adds so much to a relationship.
You are not reading the words of an ideal guy, just a good one. A one woman man looking for the right connection, and similar values.
Ideal match description:
On the day we marry, each one makes a vow. Some honor that vow, sadly others do not. Still, that solemn promise is meant to be a lifelong commitment! Do you view it that way?—a firm resolve to stick to each other and solve problems together? I do! And I look for the same level of maturity, loyalty, and devotion. If you are my kind of woman, you already know that problems can be weathered successfully...especially when you are with the right person. Such people understand the importance of faithfulness. The girl I call MINE will be loved for reasons like this, and for who she is as a person—who she is inside. (along with all the little things that make you..YOU!)
The best gift that ever comes to a man is a woman's heart! Most men do not grasp this simple truth. As for me, I have never been a member of the "most men" club)) Ideal Match??..silly words. OK then, you should be a perfect 10 in everything, soul, mind, body, cooking , and have the silky-smooth voice....so you can sing around the house .
Seriously, happiness and success in marriage comes from Effort, Trust, Commitment, Respect, and Unselfish Love...not some elusive search for the perfect person. Love is what we make it to be! It is less about the ways we are alike, and more about how well we adapt to our differences, and to each other. It means being real friends, with mutual support, shared laughter, and lots of kisses. I'm sure the one for me will have many good qualities. Among these I hope to find someone genuine, supportive, smart, and naturally affectionate. I see her as someone with a positive outlook, the girl who likes holding hands when we go places, cuddling, all the little things that make life sweeter . She is strong in some ways, yet glad to be weak with her man. She doesn't run for the hills when challenges arise. I am especially drawn to someone who is expressive and open-hearted, with the big desire to share everything with her man...all her thoughts and feelings. Sound like you? Do you smile often? I see lots of photos here without one smile, other profiles with many. A smile says so much! Does part of the little girl still live in you?...you have a playful nature at times? Honestly, I don't care what size bra you wear or how you look in the morning without makeup. After seeing that we have similar values, the main things are... really liking each other from the start, checking our compatibility, and how well we click as a couple when we meet. True love is not just attraction, infatuation, or carefree feelings. It is based on we actually KNOW about each other!
(I am here for real meetings, not endless letters, virtual relationships, or immature games )