In a word, I am REAL. Strong but gentle, confident, honest, and natural. A true gentleman, warm and kind. I enjoy my work but I try not to let it rule my life. The true measure of a person comes from who we are inside, not ability, talent, or success. I am my own man, original and interesting, with subtle but appealing sense of humor. For some reason, people are drawn to me easily. Friends know me as a good listener, wise about life, and perceptive when it comes to people. Above all I'm a GIVER, looking for someone similar. It can mean so much for the ones who understand how it draws two souls closer. Will we be "the ones"? If so, it will be undeniable!!
Manly, intelligent, reliable, understanding, romantic, and helpful...these also describe me. I know what love IS and what it's NOT, and the formula for family happiness! I thrive on good conversation, passionate yet tender when it is no longer time for talk. Despite my age I am young in spirit, mind, and body, with qualities rarely found these days. My woman will see this. She will find a new meaning of happiness, and love that breathes life into her soul each day! If you seek wealth or status, look elsewhere. It means nothing to me. I live comfortably without slaving for a materialistic lifestyle. It would be nice to find someone active, who likes keeping fit and doing things together. One last thing.....the mental and emotional connection is not less important to me than physical chemistry!! I believe the woman for me already knows this, and how much it adds to the relationship.
You are not reading the words of an ideal guy, just a good one. A one woman man looking for the right connection, and similar values.
Ideal match description:
On the day people marry, each one makes a vow. Some honor that vow, sadly others do not. Still, that solemn promise is meant to be a lifelong commitment! Do you view it that way?—-as a firm resolve to stick to each other and solve problems together? I do! And I look for the same level of maturity, loyalty, and devotion. If you are my kind of woman, you already realize that storms of life can be weathered successfully, when you are with the right person. Such people know the importance of loyalty, and working together! The girl I call MINE will be loved for reasons like this and for who she is as a person — who she is INSIDE. (along with all the cute little things that make you..YOU!)
The best gift that ever comes to a man is a woman's heart! Most men do not grasp this simple truth. As for me, I have never been a member of the "most men" club)) Ideal Match??..silly words. OK then, you should be a perfect 10 in everything, soul, mind, body, cooking skills, and with the silky-smooth voice....so you can sing around the house a lot .
Seriously, happiness and success in marriage comes from Effort, Trust, Commitment, Respect, and Unselfish Love...not some elusive search for the perfect person. Love is what we make it to be! It is less about the ways we are alike and more about how well we adapt to our differences, and to each other! For me it means being real friends, with mutual support, shared laughter, and lots of kisses. I'm sure my lady will bring fine qualities to our union. Among these I hope to find someone genuine, supportive, smart, and naturally affectionate. Someone with a positive outlook, likes holding hands when we go places, cuddling, and all the little things that make life sweeter . Strong in some ways, yet glad to be weak with her man. She doesn't run for the hills when challenges come. I am especially drawn to someone who is expressive and open-hearted, with a big desire to share everything with her man...all her thoughts and feelings. Sound like you? Do you smile often? I see lots of photos here without one smile, other profiles with many. A smile says so much! Does part of the little girl still live in you?...a playful nature at times? Honestly, I don't care what size bra you wear or how you look in the morning without makeup. The main is having similar values, and really liking each other from the start. From there we can check our compatibility, how we click as a couple, and how personalities blend. True love is not the same as attraction, infatuation, or carefree feelings. It's based on what we KNOW about each other.
(I am here for real meetings, not endless letters, virtual relationships, or immature games )