The life I have had so far, I wouldn't even wish on an enemy (honestly, tragedy and trauma from the day I was born) BUT, with all I have seen and done, I wouldn't trade it for any other life either. I believe life is what you make of it.
I have been single, celibate and alone for several years now, and my heart is finally yearning again. Yes, you can ask why. Everyone jokes with me saying I'm not alone, I have my cat. I tell them they're right, but I hate getting a mouthful of fur and scratches, every time I try to get passionate with it.... that's a joke.
I truly believe there is someone in this world, that GOD created just for me, which is why I am here now. I truly am a one of a kind, and hope she reads this one day.
I don't live or think in societies little box. Yes I do what I must, but also am the person that wants to change the world. Yes, this is the Superman side of me coming out. By the way, my nickname- superzan-- I do have a SUPERman complex, meaning I want to save and change the world( My motto is "I do the difficult immediately, the impossible takes a little longer", but the tarZAN side of me knows I am only human...Though I usually don't let that stop me.
I have a kind and caring heart, with enough love to smother my friends, family and loved ones for the next 100 years. No I won't smother you. I was raised in a close knit family of women, and believe in the mysterious power of hugs and kisses. Though I do want the lady that will enjoy life with me to have a decent body, it is the face, smile and eyes that get my attention. But on that note, if you don't have a good heart, I won't see the outer beauty either.
I do agree with the foundations of a "good relationship" are Communication, Trust, Honesty and Friendship. But also KNOW the foundations for a "Great Relationship" include those AND Passion, Romance, Flirting and Teasing, and a Healthy Sex Life. I am very passionate, about MANY things, and believe that you are just drifting on the river of life without a paddle, waiting to die, if you aren't passionate about something. If YOU aren't passionate about something, I won't hold it against you, but we won't be a couple that lasts either.
For now I am a landscaper, and also the landscaper and custodian of my church. Since I live in a small town, and the economy sucks, I am presently barely paying my bills, but am working on fixing that also. So if you're looking for someone rich, look somewhere else. I am working on improving this, but it may be a few more months before I see results in my newest endeavor.
Well, this should be enough to either peak your interest, or turn you away. Have a great day, and be excellent, Gary
Ideal match description:
Where to start. I hear everyone say "there's no such thing as perfect, or ideal". These are people that look and live 'societies' way. If what they say were true, we would all look and act alike. I am not anyone else, and I refuse to believe GOD created me to be alone. I have had plenty of "Nope, that wasn't her" relationships, and am finished thinking like society, and looking for "just good enough".. So here is a little about "My Lady"-
She has a mind of her own, but likes my input also, She knows her one and only is looking for her, and doesn't want to just "settle for" either. She has a caring, giving, loving and passionate heart, but not to the point of allowing herself to be treated like a door mat.
I would be able to see in her eyes and actions, the never ending supply of love she has for me, as it will be easily noticed from me towards her. She understands that Communication is EXTREMELY important, but also knows that silence isn't always a bad thing either.
She would know that when she wants hugs and kisses, I have them to give, and when I want them, she will also be willing to give. She LOVES flirting and teasing, and knows these are an unspoken way of letting each other know they are still wanted and desired. She will be passionate about something, ANYTHING (not just sexually), and will want to keep the passion in the relationship alive as well.
Now, here's the tough one...
My Lady will enjoy having to put up with me, and my ummmm, uniqueness. :p
Hopefully this gives you some idea as to whether you are the one I have searched for, and failed many times to this point. If you do believe you could be "The One", please don't be afraid to let me know. If you don't see it happening between us, just remember, God DID create someone for each of us. This life wasn't created for us to go through it alone.
Wishing you the best, and hoping for the best, Gary