So the big question has to be?? What makes a relationship and marriage last a lifetime? Well in my humble opinion I believe that a relationship is like a garden in full bloom on a summers day.You reap the rewards of your creation. It takes time,creativity, passion, and constant attention.
It is understood that somewhere in the world is a soul mate for everyone. However if you do not want to wait a lifetime to find them maybe you can drop me a line if you agree with what I have said.
Sadly some people find their relationships hard and to be honest if it's really hard work your with the wrong person and what you think you have got you have not so maybe it's time to move on.
For those of you in relationships that are easy with little work needed congratulations you could be with your soul mate. However for the rest of us poor souls we need to get as near to your situation with who we can find. I wish everybody happiness and luck in their search.
Ideal match description:
My ideal partner...well what's ideal?? I think chemistry is important, at least you need one common interest to share and work with. Patience, understanding, honesty, and passion are a must.
Any marriage or relationship needs trust and teamwork to carry you through all situations and the ability to have great communication is vital. I would also like someone who is happy in jeans or evening gown. Happy to get dirty in the garden and be supportive, with the ability to share responsibilities. I think the most important thing is to be yourself and not try and change someone into how you wish them to be, but to accept the qualities they have and grow and develop together through trust and understanding.