Just to say hello and to tell you who I am and who I would like to meet. I live for the moment in France. Perhaps I would sell here - that is, unless I happen to meet someone who tells me they might like to live here. So, where I live depends in some ways on whom I meet. Perhaps they will be so special to me that I will only want to be where they are – or – if I find that right person perhaps we can spend time together here before the property sells. Either way, the most important thing is to meet someone with whom I can find a way of being happy and doing things in life that please and satisfy us both. As to who I am: – I am very independent, a man who has worked hard, who can live alone comfortably with and by himself but who now wishes to find the very right person to share with. I am an intensely romantic person but that only when deserved by the other. I am a very passionate person who would like to share that passion with someone who knows how to receive it and can live comfortably with that. I am a very caring person, highly intelligent but not over concerned with intellect for the sake of knowledge. I am cultivated but neither needing nor wanting the trappings of false sophistication. I am a musician, and a writer - perhaps I just wish to fall in love again but this time with the wisdom of having failed and now wanting the truth of real love; who knows where and with whom – I am looking. So, let us imagine, that we are sitting together in a nice place, we have the evening to say what and who we are – I have started here and would now like to here from this beautiful lady who sits before and who’s eyes will look into mine to see if I understand her and then perhaps begin to tell me of her ……… I would like to hear from you. Ian A Mayes

am looking for a beautiful and intelligent, passionate and sexy woman to share the rest of my life with. If you have children then sorry – I have finished looking after children nor is it my idea to have any more children. If you think you could be my special woman then please, contact me - I do want to believe that you are there. If you are a woman of real beauty both in and out. With a real respect for me and who I am. Someone who will take the time to discover who this me is before committing. Someone with a real sense of humour. For this woman, if she exists beyond just here in my imagination, I will give all.