IMPORTANT: New 06/21/17 Please be a smart girl... If you do not have time to read this entire profile before you send a smile or letter, you do not have time to develop a relationship..!!

I get as many as 3000 messages a month, from this and a few other sites. So... my apologies, if my responses may be a bit slow.

Crazy but true..!!

NO GAMES.. RIGHT..?? If you have photos requiring a password, you are playing games. Naughty girl..!! You need a spanking..!!

I DO NOT write "first letters." I get more messages than I can respond to already..!!

I study letters carefully. You send a letter or smile, I will send you a smile to say thank you. Excellent letters will get a reply.

Don't waste your first letter to me. I get many meaningless form letters, which DO NOT respond to anything in my profile.

These letters waste my time and yours, although I know that many of the women that send these letters are possibly outstanding.

Let me be very direct. I want to connect with your brain, not any part of your anatomy. If you are the most beautiful girl in the world I DO NOT CARE..!! Save that for the other male clowns that will contact you..!!

If you have children..?? You must tell me their gender and age..?? MOST Important..!!

Are you willing to relocate..??

You want an early meeting. Good. Get your travel documents in order and fly to Virginia Beach, Virginia, USA. I cannot and will not fly to you for a cup of coffee/tea for a chat..!!

Virginia Beach is by the sea with beautiful beaches and a major tourist area. Very lively.!

If you do not know what to say in your first letter, here are some suggestions..??

If you actually read my profile, there are many things to write about. Chose 10 specific things that you like. DO NOT just say "I read your profile and it is so nice."

Read the book 50 Shades of Grey and/or see the movie. Tell me your thoughts about it. Both are very popular in your country.

If you have a submissive personality, you should continue reading this profile. I am interested in you.

If you have a dominant personality, stop reading my profile now, we will not be right for each other.

I have a dominant personality, and a submissive female will be able to form a strong relationship and partnership.

You must be a lady in public and a very naughty submissive and obedient nymph at home in the family..!!

Are you willing to live in a polyamorous/polyfidelity Family..?? (That is multiple love)

Please… Only respond if you know that you fit my requirements very very well. It will save us both time.

If you write to me, please tell me how you fit these requirements. I will be very favorably impressed.

If you send a form letter, that you send to everyone, I will not be impressed.

I will only respond to women aged 18 to 40. I know many young women are very intelligent and have wisdom, and I look for that. Nobody is too young.

I will not travel halfway around the world to meet you for a few hours. I have business interests that cannot be ignored or delayed.

You will be welcome to visit me here in Virginia Beach.


I do not want long term internet correspondence. It is necessary for a few months to get acquainted. You must have the ability to travel to Virginia Beach within six months to a year.

I will help you arrange your travel.

Education and work can be continued here

Some basic information about me.

I am a renaissance man, from an old upper class family, with degrees and advanced degrees in engineering, psychology and history. I have a great curiosity about all things in life, and a very strong sense of adventure.

I am single and currently live alone. I am not a good cook, but I can boil water very well, and perform other basic cooking tasks. My housekeeping skills are also not very good. I am waiting for skilled housekeeping help to arrive.

I'm looking for a special woman that has inner beauty. Superficial looks are relatively unimportant to me.

As I have a dominant personality, any woman in my family must be submissive.

This is why...

If both partners are dominant, they will get along well only if they always agree about everything. If they disagree on anything, they will fight.

True dominants are natural leaders, who will accept all responsibility. They are real men. They are Masters of their territory and Masters of their family. These real men are very rare.

If both partners are submissive, they have great difficulty making decisions. They always want the other partner to decide matters and to be responsible.

I intend to have a traditional family model. I am the Master of my family and the Master of all those in my family.

I will be totally committed to everyone in my family and they must be equally committed to everyone else in my family, for a life time relationship.

I will lead and be totally responsible for all matters in the family. Family members will be obedient and follow my lead.

A female suitable to fit in my family will not be looking for an immature boyfriend or play partner, but rather a mature partner, a man's man and natural leader, with common sense, worldly experience and wisdom.

A female in my family will enjoy constant attention and affection and she will return the same, without qualification, reservation or inhibition.

I am totally a giver type, and everyone else in my family must be a total giver type. They will never be a taker type at all. If everyone is a giver type, everyone will benefit wonderfully, sharing everything generously.

I am totally open minded. A female suitable to fit in my family will be open minded and honest. She will be, ready to share all her thoughts, and fantasies. No topic of discussion will be taboo, including her naughty secret thoughts.

If you want to impress me with your openness, tell me your favorite naughty fantasy in your letter. Your fantasies can come true..!!

Intellectual exploration will be encouraged. Learning and experiencing life in all its forms is a never ending process, and makes life exciting and interesting. -*-

I will support and encourage you in all your interests, career or profession and in continuing your education. -*-

My interests are wide. Among them are history, anthropology, sociology, psychology, philosophy, antiques and collectibles, museums, cultural art, and world cultures.

I have traveled around the world and visited many countries. I have lived in some countries for extended periods. -*-

I do have a well developed sense of humor. Some have said that I have a naughty sense of humor, as I find much of human activity humorous, and I like to use word play, puns, double entendres. -*-

I do enjoy the public display of affection. Walking hand-in-hand, arm-in-arm, arm around your waist, then letting my hand slip down to stroke your butt, as we walk along. I also very much enjoy kissing, hugging, fondling and cuddling.

I do not need the password to your secret photos. I need the password to your mind.

Great minds talk about ideas and concepts.

Average minds talk about the news, weather and sports.

Small minds talk about other people.

A great mind is much much more important than great beauty. A great mind lasts a lifetime, while great beauty does not. Which kind of mind do you have?

I am on this site, as I was curious about the internet dating and introduction phenomenon. I joined several sites on every continent.

Soon I focused on the Ukraine, The women seemed to have a traditional family values.

I also have deep family roots in the Ukraine.

You may have heard of some of my ancient Grand Fathers and Grand Mothers.

Rurik, Igor of Kiev, Saint Olga, Grand Princess of Kiev, Sviatoslav I, Grand Prince of Kiev, Saint Vladimir I, Grand Prince of Kiev, Yaroslav I, Grand Prince of Kiev, Gleb Vseslavic, Prince of Minsk.

Just some of the family.

Any young lady that is suitable to join my family should have the following personal characteristics:

1.) Intelligence

2.) Openness

3.) A sense of adventure

4.) Mental strength

5.) Honesty

6.) Patience

7.) Dedication

8.) Commitment

9.) Self control

10.) Discipline

11.) Sincerity

12.) Resolve.

She will have the following reasons and motivations to join me:

1.) A desire for sexual excitement and adventure.

2.) A desire for freedom from day-to-day cares and responsibilities

3.) A desire to please

4.) A desire to serve

5.) A desire to be obedient

6.) A desire to be loyal.

All these should be strongly held reasons and motivations, and deep feelings. They are required for a truly strong relationship.

She will be ready to form a strong bond and maintain that bond for a lifetime. A friendship bond that reaches the spiritual level defines soul mates. -*-

Many tell me what their philosophy of love is. I would say that love is the ultimate friendship. If that friendship reaches the spiritual level, they become soul mates.

Love is not like money and you must limit who you love. Love is like a bottomless water well, that never runs out of water. No matter how much water is taken out. You can never spend all your love, if you have the right personality.

Love at first sight is really just LUST at first sight.

I realize that she must have a great deal of self awareness. But an excessively bratty, argumentative, quarrelsome, materialistic, and self-centered person will not be suitable.

She will not be a jealous type, as I am not a jealous type. Jealousy shows a lack of self confidence and a lack of trust. It is potentially a destructive psychological problem-*-

She should be young and healthy to have children and be able to raise them skillfully. She will have a libido high enough to match my own. She will be sexually liberated.

She will be Bisexual or Bi-Curious and sexually adventurous, which will demonstrate her willingness to be adventurous, try new things and fully experience life in all it's forms. It is nothing to fear.

She will always appreciate being kept safe, protected, cared for, wanted and appreciated at all times, receiving constant attention and affection. -*-

I will be the School Master of the School of Life. She desires to be an eager student always ready to learn, to grow and develop her skills and her highest potential in life. -*-

She must be truly submissive in her core personality, that needs a strong male presence to guide her and direct her as necessary. It is not enough to try to be submissive, which is merely an act, which will fail.

I say again... she must be a total giver type.

Because of so many responses, which I appreciate, I cannot respond to everyone. A smile from me means "Thank You" for your interest, "Your Smile" or "Your letter."

Adding you to my Hot List means that I am very interested in you. I will send a text message in time. You must show me that you have patience, have resolve and commitment to developing a relationship.

Send a smile every few days if you are truly interested. That makes you memorable. Be persistent, as it will be necessary. This is NOT a game. I do NOT play games here.

Please do not make any assumptions, or listen to the uninformed opinions of other people. Assumptions and opinions are usually wrong! -*-

I want someone that is truly special and is goal oriented. She must show me that she is the special girl that I search for! Your great beauty is NOT enough to attract me.

Read this carefully and comprehend all of it.!! DO NOT SEND FORM LETTERS. Show that you have a GREAT mind, not an average or small mind. Avoid banality.!

You should mention how you fit what I have written in this profile.

Contact me ONLY if you agree and fit the requirements for the girl that I am looking for.

If you have children, you must mention their gender and age.

I have 90 questions for anyone that is seeking a serious relationship. If your interest is sincere start your email with...

"Please send me your 90 questions."

Winners never quit and quitters never win!