Like most people I know I'm complex and full of seemingly disparate pieces that may not always fit together in a nice clean way. I like to make people laugh and there are times when I sing out loud when I work. And yet, some see me as shy and reserved, cause that's the way I am sometimes. I like to ask the question why and why not believe or do things this way or that, though I try not to take myself too seriously in doing so. I am goal oriented both at work and at play. I enjoy a good meal and like to try new types of foods/restraunts. I guess it really is not so much who I am, it is what am I becoming.

At this stage of the game I think I would prefer to be involved in more serious relationships where two people are willing to take some risks. That means, someone who is secure and interested enough to help me become a better person but, who will also respect and want me to offer my thoughts on how they too can improve themselves. Someone who's sense of humor is maybe a little off center such that she doesn't think that I should be committed instead of committed to. What am I looking for in a woman? She's active, thoughtful, caring, humorous, wacky, attractive gal that engages my whole being, mind, heart, and body. Laughs at my silly jokes, even when they are not remotely funny. Someone willing to hold my hand and feed me soup when I am sick, instead of try to get me out of bed and take them for walks like my dogs do now. Of course they must also be willing to let me hold their hand and feed them soup when they are sick as well. It goes both ways you know