From experience I know I am attracted to women who are: calm, clever, classy, sensual, exciting and imaginative, grounded in reality a woman who knows when to work and loves to play and does both with equal vigor. A woman capable of making a real effort, who understands and truly enjoys her role in a partnership, A woman who will rise from my bed looking forward to the day, and enter my bed anticipating the night. 😉
My Lady will not be dripping with gold and diamonds, but she will have a man who loves and cherishes her, she would in time realize he is willing to lay down his life for her.
We may argue, a certain amount of arguing is healthy, a sign of passion, of individuality. If our arguments are about what we propose to do we have the opportunity to compromise, If they are about what we have already done then we have the opportunity to accept and forgive.
For all these things to be possible, there is a single catalyst, Chemistry, physical chemistry, For me (and I suppose with most men) A relationship where we cannot meet in person starts with visual attraction to your photograph, Then reading your words to get a glimpse of your heart, your character, your inner beauty. Our dialog can give us a mental picture of each other's life. Meeting face to face will soon confirm the existence of that chemistry that human spark. Only then can we begin to truly discover the magic together and have a fantastic life doing it.
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