I am an active man trying this to see if THE ONE might be found here. I am living a reasonably good life with a good job, good friends, a loving family and with my two amazing boys (3 and 6 years). But I miss someone to share my privacy with. I want someone to share my goals, my activities and my lazy days.
I keep rather fit by participating in different kinds of exercise races such as marathons, bike races, cross country skiing and swimming. I am drawn to the more extreme/adventurous sports/activities as well. I would like to pick up my skydiving, learn to scuba dive and kite surf, do some martial arts and I also would like to learn to dance the tango, oh yeah.. I also really like the outdoor (hiking and canoeing).
As a person I am confident, quite intelligent and I have integrity. I am goal oriented and I have the ability to separate facts and emotions. I am not really the bubbly type who becomes the center of attention, but I generally develop relations of trust and honesty. I have been called 'brutally honest' and 'manly'. People seem to trust me and consider me to be a 'rock'. I don't back down from a discussion if I think I am right but I can accept being wrong and I can apologize for that instantly. I really like music and I like going to concerts and other events of pretty much any kind (living not very far from Stockholm, there are a few things to choose from). I am not the roses-and-chocolate romantic guy. But I am the doing-things-together-such-as-walks -and-picnics and giving-you-a-massage-after-a-crap-d ay-at-work romantic kind of guy.
When it comes to future children, I know that if I find someone who is right, I would like to have a few more. I also consider myself to be a good father with decent values about upbringing.
I don't really expect to find true love here, there are so many obstacles (language, distance, culture, my inability to relocate) but..... what if it is here, and I didn't try it??!!?
Ideal match description:
To try to specify who I will fall in love with is really stupid. But, I am only a man, so here it goes.
First of all there has to be attraction. Without the attraction everything will fall, and with the attraction everything else is not important. But apart from that I think (meaning that this description is not conclusive) I am attracted to active, intelligent, down-to-earth, honest, non-sarkasm, natural, kind, sweet, not-to-much-makeup, sporty, feminine kind of girls.
My languages skills:
Swedish: I am advanced in every skill English: I am advanced in every skill German: I can read and write with a dictionary but can't speak