Firstly, I get so many messages from attractive sexy women who send the same one to everyone, and whose professional studio photos have the same sexy poses with kinky boots and sticking out bits that are supposed to appeal to the average normal American male.
The Agency then charges 15 times the very high price before they even allow me to read a real message, rather than one censored by the Agency according to what they think attracts me and gets me to pay up. Only then can I know the real woman, by which time she suddenly stops writing and I hear no more.
This is not good.
Like many of us, I am looking for a soulmate and true love and wife that will see me to old age and the grave. I have to know I can make her happy, or it is a waste of time. She has to be able to inspire me to great things, or she will not be satisfied with me.
She has to show to me that she has read what I have to say, understand it, and only then send honey words to me if she still likes me.
I get more information from the background of a photograph than I do from the madeover styled woman. It shows me her values and purpose in life, which is just as important as her beauty.
If she has a dream of growing vegetables and flowers in a nice quiet little cottage among the birds and the neighbour's dogs... If she make music and dreams and beauty with me and plan for a better world, even when times are hard and I am disillusioned and tired... If she can take off the makeup and the trappings of fashion, let her hair down to flow uncut over her body, and be the lovely unspoilt woman God made her with me..., then I am interested.
But if this is not your idea of a good time, then best not to bother with me. Find a nice rich American with a million dollar smile!
Favorite films: Manon des Sources, Little Dorrit, GBH, I Claudius, Heimat
Favorite books: The Chronicles of Narnia, The Alchemist, World Atlas
bacon & eggs, white cabbage, chocolate pudding, pork chops with garlic, borshch
Swimming, table tennis, morris dancing
Brave, Friendly, Honest, Kind, Obstinate, Pensive, Persistent, Quiet, Reliable, Religious, Romantic, Sentimental, Tender, Trustworthy
I love natural, growing things, long hair, music which creates feelings, kindness and intelligence. I dislike fashion, smoky nightclubs, bullies and gangsters.
I have my own home in the countryside and an old but classic car. I am not rich, but I have no debts; I use what I have wisely and the most important thing is to save for my new family. I have never taken drugs, never smoked, and do not gamble.
I have no gf - I prefer to wait for the true one, rather than waste a short life on someone who betrays me. So it is lonely; everything I do gets done in the end, but takes five times longer than it would if there was someone to love and to give this effort meaning.
Ideal match description:
Long unspoilt hair (the longer the better, no hairstyling or colouring), loves nature & countryside, kind expression, healthy body, musical, does not like noisy clubs, trustworthy and faithful, ideally Catholic (they do not divorce!), little people are nice, intelligent enough to get a visa and yet not so clever as to make money out of deceiving and divorcing men (big problem here!), able to handle money sensibly, must like an older man (since I want to start another family even if I am quite old).
Height is not important (as long as she can accept me), I prefer medium to slim, favourite hair colour is brown (but I like any natural colour), I like any skin and eye colour. Age - I would like to start a family, and it is important not to have lost too much of the child inside. I am radical slightly intellectual middle class (you can tell by the beard) and prefer someone from this background - there must always be a place for dreaming, or we just become machines.