I`m a rare and different kind of man, easy to lose, difficult to find and even harder to forget. I have had a hard life that has freed me of most annoying male traits and spoiled characteristics. To survive it all, I have developed to the stage, where I combine the qualities of 3-5 regular men in one man. After many long relationships and a LOT of short-term female encounters, I finally know what women need from a man, and how to provide it. I also know how difficult it is to create a working relationship between two people, who BOTH really love and need each other. Therefore, I'm in no hurry to date women today. I don't want another "almost great" relationship, and having no illusions anymore, I can spot one a mile away. I'm also not interested in running around and meeting a lot of women, playing the promising future husband to get into bed with them. No, I simply want to find the proper woman for me, that can make me as totally happy as I can make her. Otherwise, I'll just live alone until I find her. My work is much too important for me to waste time chasing women for sex, and being what I have become today -- one of the few rare men that understands women and can make them totally happy with their lives -- I will not waste myself on occasional acquaintances anymore. As a wise man once said: "The hardest thing is not to make 365 women a year happy, but 1 woman happy for 365 days a year". I'm opening two new companies next year and am launching three world class technologies, so my time is very precious. The woman I will spend it with MUST be the right one. I want to have a family with her, and BY GOD, it will be a happy one (as opposed to my previous life). My own family background has been very traumatic, so I simply MUST achieve a happy personal family to compensate for it. At least, I know all about how NOT to treat your children (I could write books about it). Children and animals seem to like me instinctively, and also women who have had a LOT of experience with men (restaurant and bar waitresses, prostitutes and call girls, taxi drivers, dance teachers, cashier girls, receptionists, sales assistants). I don't look my age at all, people think I'm in my thirties (good genes and a healthy inner child). Young girls feel very at home with me, and usually have a small crisis when I tell them that I'm 50 years old. I'm a former musician and still want to find the time to record and release my music. I'm also a good dancer and former salsa DJ, dance teacher, contest dancer and club owner. I'm sexually very open-minded, and always find new ways to make the woman I love experience pleasure. The short list is: loving, caring, faithful, tender, romantic, polite, earnest, kind, honest, trustworthy, reliable, hard-working, philosophical, musical, loyal, humorous, intelligent, responsible, brave, understanding, dependable, generous, handsome, charismatic, thoughtful, daring, bold, noble, strong, realist, enduring, experienced, disillusioned, wise, spiritual, realist, sensual, sexual, gentleman, great father and very good friend. To sum it all up, I'm a living exception, and life's beaten me bloody before I became what I'm today. Therefor, I don't seek the woman I can live with, but the one I can't live without.
Ideal match description:
A woman that doesn't smoke or drink, doesn't spoil easily, isn't after my money primarily, isn't looking for a quick ticket to the western world, doesn't use men for her purposes, doesn't cheat on her husband and isn't a shopaholic. Does it sound like I've been there and done that? You bet, so I'll probably spot you a mile away if you're any of the above. I simply don't have any more illusions or precious time to waste on those kinds of women. She should be a good cook preferably, because I'm not, and am working too hard to learn how to. She should enjoy sex and not be shy about it, because I'm very adept at giving women sexual pleasure, and my fantasy has no boundaries -- anything goes. Sometimes, when I'm stressed and tired from work, I just want to kiss, caress and cuddle in bed, though. I also like women who can take charge sexually, so I don't always have to do all the hard work (done that too). She should like music and dancing (which women don't?), movies, walks in the park, fitness, jogging and calm evenings at home. And PLEASE, she has to speak at English, Swedish or German DECENTLY !
My languages skills:
Swedish: I am advanced in every skill English: I am advanced in every skill German: I can read and write very well and speak on everyday topics