My busy life doesn't leave me with much free time to spare. I wind up having to be careful with how I invest it, and more importantly who I spend it with.
A lot of you have wondered what someone like myself is doing on a website like this. A couple of past successful arrangements have left me wanting another. The difference is they happened by chance, and being on here seemed to be the most convenient way to go about it. I never realized it would be so much time consuming to establish what supposedly should be the simplest and easiest form of relationship.
I hail from France, but have been living in New York for quite some time now. I stay true to the stereotype when it comes to loving fine dining, cheese, and medium rare cooked meat!
I enjoy a wide array of events and activities as I hope you do too.... from travelling, weekend getaways, broaddway shows, sailing, sporting events, dining out to a simple movie outing or a long walk.
Ideal match description:
Looking to be graced with the company and friendship of a beautiful and sweet girl... one that I will be more than happy to look after and care for.
From what I've realized so far on this site, there are either those wishing to make a career out of it, and others, a conventional friendship with the perks of it. The common feeling though is men accuse women of not being serious, and playing games, and women, the same of men.
On that note, I do expect someone to be serious. I would rather avoid those with a negative view of an arrangement. If you are new to this kind of relationship and feel you might be selling yourself, then perhaps this may not be for you. Just as a boyfriend takes care of you, though in a less explicitly fashion, I would too. The difference is you will not have to report to me your every move, and be left to enjoy the freedom you would being single.
While the physical aspect should occur over a natural progression of time, it would unquestionably happen sooner... much sooner than in any other settings. Keyword here is "excitement". Drift too far away from it, and you would bring me back to a reality I had sought to escape from to begin with. An arrangement is, after all, taboo. Everything about one is should be exciting, leaving the anticipation building up as to what our next date would bring.
Nothing will happen that would not feel right. Comfort may not be established as quickly for some as it would for others, and I would have no problem being patient for those that are more promising than those that aren't
We all have basic expectations. I understand this much. Start explaining to me what your hourly rates are, and I doubt we will consume more than a tenth of one.
Bottom line is be genuine, honest and forthcoming. Be in this for a normal/casual friendship. Let's be open about our needs and wants, and come to a happy medium. I'm not looking to be chasing after someone I choose to have an arrangement with. You should be just as happy picking up my calls as you would making them.