So I quit my job and I'm living in Moscow, Russia for now. Obviously, I'm serious about my new life; I'm also very excited and can't wait to see you! Right now, I can't leave the country, so if you are open to coming to Moscow, let's not waste time on countless letters, let's do it right now. I have a two room flat and live alone, so you can even stay with me if you wish. If you are in Moscow, then meeting should be easy. Please do not expect a lot of letters from me. I get lots of letters with all types of proposals, but only a meeting will show that you are serious.
I know that love and intimacy is out there for me, so I'm offering myself you for consideration. I want a person to love with great passion, affection and with whole to build a relationship filled with love and laughter.
I'm a "pleaser." I focus on the positive, and make people feel good about themselves. My happiness comes from within, and it is not dependent upon what other people do to me or for me. My happiness depends upon how I choose to react to my environment ... either in a positive or a negative way. I often read "I want a man who will make me happy." If this is so, you will never find such a man. NO ONE can "make" us happy. It is an impossible burden to place on another human being. Be yourself with me. Don't try to change me, or own me. We need to keep our individuality and add to each others lives. We need to accept and respect each other for who we are.
I accept a person for who they are and what they are. I find their strengths and support them in those areas. I believe it is important for each person in a relationship to maintain their individuality, and be free to pursue their own personal goals and professional ambitions. I don't understand jealousy, and I don't understand anyone who sets out to "change" someone else. Jealousy is a negative emotion, and I refuse to give anyone the power to make me experience a negative feeling. Besides, if I am with you, and you capture another man's attention, should that not make me feel good? At the end of the evening, you are coming to my bed, not his ... the fact that he is interested is only a strong indication that I have made an excellent choice! It is flattering, not only to you, but also to me that others find you attractive, is it not?
My star sign is Pisces, so passionate emotions with a strong desire for a peaceful life is a constant state
for me. But as is reflected in my sign (two fish swimming in opposite directions) this is a difficult balance to achieve.
Qualities I think are important in a mate are: Intelligence, Hard working, Ethical, Passionate, Sensual, Affectionate , Patient, Very clean and organized (keep a nice house), Open-minded in all things, Very sociable, Affectionate , Loyal, Trustworthy, Communicative, Easy going, Willing to live anywhere in the USA, Willing to pursue their own job/career, Willing to maintain a high level of physical fitness,Oh ... did I mention affectionate! .
I know, I mention affection many times. Affection is a 24 hour per day proposition. It is a look, a touch, the way we speak to each other, always holding hands, opening doors, spontaneous kisses (at home, in the metro, while walking on the street...).
I have to warn you; I think we are in trouble!!! If like you, and if you like me, and show me you are as affectionate as I am; well look out! Affection is sooooooo important to me. Get ready to be kissed ... and often, held and hugged, with meaning, caressed all over. If we are attracted to each other, why not? I think it is affection that is the glue that bonds all aspects of a relationship, no matter how we feel or the circumstance ... do you agree? Are you ready to have me show it to you? To have this in your life? Obviously other things come from this affection, but that is desert; I'm talking about every moment of every day! I mentioned that I think that affection is the glue that holds a relationship together. In times of struggle, happiness, or in our routine, we must maintain that physical/emotional bond or we will quickly lose each other.
All I ask from you is that you try to participate in all of the things I like or want you to try to do. At least try it once! In return, I will eagerly try to do all of the things that you asks me to do, and all of the things that are important to you. I don't expect perfection, just a willingness to try.
Ideal match description:
First I want to be clear of a few things. As I mentioned, I left my job in the USA. My job was no longer rewarding, and my best friend told me that the two years I had worked at this company had "aged" me and she worried that the job was killing me. So, I made a change to live out a long time fantasy.
I am currently in Moscow, working as an English teacher. I can't leave Russia for the next few months because of the type of visa I have, so if you are outside Russia, please come to me...I have my own place. In time, I can change my visa and will be able to travel freely.
Also, I do not have a lot of money. I am hard working (I teach every day of the week), and I do OK, but I cannot provide you with a luxurious life, shower you with fine jewelry and other presents, nor is that what I seek.
I am looking for a woman that will love me for my soul and my heart. If we had to live in a tent in the forest would you still be with me? I need a person that I can depend upon through good and bad, and she will most certainly be able to depend upon me. I can provide, yes, but what I will give you mostly is my attention and my affection. As I've said, I hope you like affection, because I really love spontaneous passionate kisses, hugs, winks and warmth.
If you think you understand how to please your man (me!!), then I want the opportunity for you to show me, yes. But, I also want to show you! To please each other, love and passion cannot be one way roads ... it will take both of us. Most definitely, I want to feel our friendship and genuine care for each other. From that, we can build our passion and discover many things ... emotionally, spiritually and physically.
I'm looking for a woman who is feminine, yet physically fit (I admire and think good muscle tone is sexy.). Height does not really matter. I look for happy eyes, a smile, energy, and a lot of detail in your responses (I really pay attention to a person's expression .). Short answers are not appealing to me.
You should be happy with who you are, and that should show up physically and emotionally. I also very much want someone who speaks enough English to get by socially (an intermediate level or better) and who is well educated. You don't need several degrees or be the best student, just educated...know what's going on in the world!
Come to my embrace ... Just do it!
My languages skills:
English: I am advanced in every skill Russian: I can read and write with a dictionary but can't speak