Auto Racing (NASCAR), Hockey, Golf, Reading, Freemasonry, Family and friends. Hi Ladies, I'm Tom. I'm a 36 year old American man who is tired of playing games. I'm tired of being alone and now search for the love of my life. Are you her? I don't expect a model or angel to grab my heart, I just want to be able to have a real relationship with a real woman. I'm 5'8" tall weigh 170 pounds, have blonde hair, blue eyes.