I am searching for marriage, not a date. I will not come to Ukraine for fun. I will NOT purchase gifts and dinners for ladies, and spend a few nights with her, and then leave.
I am searching for a partner to marry.
I received my renewed passport August 20, 2016. I can now arrange for my flight to Kiev.
I have been writing to 4 different women. Each one of them promised they would meet , however, when i them i am buying a ticket to to Ukraine, 1 vanished (her profile was suspended), 1 lady told me she decided had a change of heart, and, 1 lady wants to write even more letters (we have already exchanged 12 letters!)
DO NOT WRITE TO ME IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO GET MARRIED.
YOU ALL KNOW WHAT IS REQUIRED. YOU ARE ALL DIVORCED WITH CHILDREN.
LOVING A HUSBAND REQUIRES THE SAME LOVE AS LOVING YOUR CHILD - plus respecting him even when he isn't perfect , and with benefits.
YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE YOUR . even when it is a little bratty , selfish , delinquent. I know; I have 4 children.
So, i will come to visit Ukraine when some 2 or 3 ladies will actually meet me. I hope in 2016, September. It is the only way to discover who will like me in reality.
I trying to fly to Ukraine this late Summer or Autumn.
I will visit Mariupol, Kharkiv, Kyiv, Mykolaiv, Denopropokiloxcskiaiev. , Odessa, Cherkassy, other major cities in-between and several towns near them.
Contact the agency to discover when I will be in your city. I will ask this agency to plan my trip to Ukraine and they will invite women that I have corresponded with.
I will meet anyone who would like to see me in real life when I am there in Ukraine, in their city. If you need transportation, discuss this with the agency, I might be able to help you with your travel costs. I wish to meet the women I have already met here on the Web-site.
I will visit for ten days (10) in September 2016 (?) I hope. or October 2016.
Пиз, пожалуйста, ПОЖАЛУЙСТА! Прочитайте мой ПРОФИЛЬ
READ MY PROFILE ! July 7, 2016.
Серьезно ONLY. PLEASE, PAZSHALSTA,
I have a very important recommendation for all of the women, do not tell me that you are gentle, and kind; that you are family-oriented; that you have a sense of humor; that you like to travel; that you like home coziness; that you love your child; that you enjoy Italian food; that you are interesting, EVERY PERSON LIKES THESE THINGS. ALL PEOPLE THINK THAT THEY ARE INTERESTING AND THAT THEY HAVE A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR.
Considering this last characteristic, there are many different kinds of humor. Some are slapstick, physical, goofy, subtle, dark, macabre, silly, fun, sophisticated.
I WANT TO KNOW YOU. More important : WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME ? What kind of marriage relationship do you want ? You can tell me what you need. Tell me what you expect in our relationship. Describe your personality.
If you think you are patient, describe what makes you think this?
I am always honest to the best of my understanding of myself and the question, or the circumstances at issue.
**** READ THIS !!! There is a password to be found in the writing of this description. It is labeled 'password'. Write the password into your letter to me.
Some of my photos are of projects i have designed for my work. I did all the drawings. Some drawings are technical for the clarification to the constructors. I have helped develop several inventions. I have invented some products too. The new photo is of me and my son. One photo is the city where i now live; very comfortable and safe.
**** READ THIS!!! You are required to write the password into your letter to me; this will give me proof that you read my description of the nature of the relationship that i am seeking and the requirements for you.
If the lady does not read this self-description and my description of my ideal match, I will not answer the invitation to correspond. This is my first line of defense against the men and women in Eastern Europe who only wish to scam the men from Western Europe and North America.
Write the password into your letter to me.
Only 15 WOMEN HAVE DONE THIS !!
As of February 2, 2016, I have received 4,193 + invitations to correspond !!!
It is very many! I am required to look through these many beautiful ladies to discover with whom I may begin to write letters.
I apologize to each of you who has sincere wishes to meet me. I feel selfish. I wish I could meet everyone's needs.
Please be a little patient. If you do not receive some letter from me within 14 days, please, continue to search without waiting for some message from me. I certainly do not wish to prevent you each from having the fulfilling love of some good man. This does not mean that I will not send a letter to you after 14 days; I may still send you a letter. It only means that I do not wish to prevent your progress with another man.
Some, it is obvious, only engage the men who search for a partner and wife in the delusional belief that they can swindle (steal) from the man. They write the letters to entice a correspondence so that the men pay the money for each letter that is written. Or, the ladies (maybe they are men who borrowed the photos of their sisters or girlfriend) have some other motivation to later ask for money as support. It is difficult to discern who is real and who is attempting to exploit the men who search for their love.
I am truly sorry that this happens. If people were honest, we all would be wealthy beyond our dreams. It is true.
Imagine what the world would be if these deceivers worked as diligently to produce products for each other to increase our benefit , to improve our quality of life, and wealth, rather than to defraud someone through deception. We all would have plenty.
However, I will choose some few women to write a letter to them. Some of you have already received a letter. And it is sincere.
I am a healthy and normal man. I have no hidden defects. However, remember, I truly am the average man. Truly, statistically I am the mean. I cannot promise wealth. I am not a millionaire. Not the movie actor. Not the great lover. If you seek a very good and close friend, and you wish very much to be married only once, for the remainder of your life, I am capable.
Immanuel Kant is my philosopher. The Bible is my manifesto. It is very important that you understand this Bible, especially the New Testament contained in the Bible (this is the Letters, also called books (correspondence) contained inside the Bible consisting of, in-part, those by Saint John (the book of John), The first Letter by Apostle Paul to the Corinthians, The letter of Apostle Paul to the Ephesians and The letters of Saint Matthew and Saint Luke).
I BELIEVE THIS: Love is a choice. Loving another person, and being in-love with a person, is a choice. Falling into love with someone, and remaining in-love is an act of a person's will. I wish for my wife to be resolute in her determination to maintain her loving feelings toward me. I wish for her to discipline herself to honor and respect me in her mind. I wish for her to view me through loving eyes and accept me for who i am. She should be committed to remaining in-love with me. She shall be patient, generous with her love, and kind.
I believe the foundation of a family is the relationship of the husband and wife. When the man and woman act toward each other in the ways that communicate love to their partner, then the family is strengthened, the children are secure, the society is productive.
I ADORE CHILDREN. I ALREADY LOVE YOUR CHILD. I CHERISH CHILDREN, THEY ARE PRECIOUS.
I value Justice and equity above all. It is my nature, my character, to be reasonable and fair. I wish to be an honorable and good man. I wish to be a loving, kind, fair , and generous husband.
I do not know how to treat a woman; I don't know what that means. However, i do very much wish to learn how to please my wife.
I am very well educated (OCHEN! Vi paneemaesh?). I have a tender heart toward others' difficulties. I am very smart, but it does not make me a great success. I am creative and inventive, however, it does not matter without someone with whom to share these ideas. I am resourceful.
I am Lonely. I search for a woman for a life-time commitment and marriage.
I detest lies and manipulation. I dislike stubbornness and unreasonableness. However, i will listen and i value openness, communication, frankness and reason.
Please understand, it is a very time-consuming, and expensive effort to bring a woman to the USA. The cost for a fiancee visa to come to the USA is $1.150,00 USD. The cost to fly to east Europe , for a visit, is $2.000,00 USD. The cost to provide the Consulate documents and the medical exams, the criminal background search by the European Nation where she lives is between $300,00 USD to $600,00 USD. The cost to bring a fiancee to the USA is another 2.000,00 USD. This process requires applications, and letters. The time required by the government agencies to review and approve the application s requires 5 months to 12 months after the first application is submitted. If the fiancee has a child, the costs double.
When a woman writes in her profile that she is serious, believe me, she's not nearly as serious as any man who proceeds to attempt to bring her to be with him in his country. These costs, the prices are not trivial. It is not a joke.
The man will do 90% of the work to get the applications approved. The fiancee will have all of the appointments already scheduled, the man is required to make these contacts and coordinate these examinations and doctor visits. She will simply go to the appointments.
Now you can understand why i require her to commit herself to this effort and execute a contract before i begin to make such a difficult, time-consuming, and monetarily expensive effort.
Before the marriage, my future wife will be required to enter into a prenuptial agreement (a contract) approved by a United States court and witnessed and conformed for the public record. This will be required before the K-1 visa application is sent to USCIS and the foreign consulate.
NOTICE: I will NOT sign an I-485 and I-864 affidavit of support. (this is NOT REQUIRED for her to remain indefinitely in the USA after marriage.) An immigrant can now self-sponsor to receive permanent residence status. The immigration laws are strictly enforced. Once she is in the USA, before she is a USA citizen, she is required to abide by the Homeland Security regulations, or she will be deported. I write this to assure any lady who may have illusions about tricking American men into using the marriage process as a tool to immigrate to the United States. It will not work. If you truly seek a marriage partner, then, i assure you, you can find many good and careful men in the USA for a faithful and loving partner.
Then, after this required promise for faithfulness, with a severe penalty for her if she does not abide by this prenuptial agreement, we will share life as husband and wife.
The lady who accepts my offer of love toward her will receive all these same affections and securities from me. She will be required to sign and have notarized a contract. This contract will include promises by her to remain faithful, to be my friend, to honor me in her own mind and in her actions and words, to do only good and no harm to me, to be my companion, to provide conversation and assistance, to be caring, to have fidelity to our marriage in friendship, and physically, and in her mind and soul and in heart. Our relations will include: much affection and frequent (daily) sexual intercourse; cooperation to maintain our relationship; to be healthy and to care for her health and to maintain her body and cardiovascular health through daily moderate exercise with me, exercise lasting 45 minutes with an added 15 minutes stretching; participation with me in travel and day-trips; much romance (to suit her as she wishes); commitment; participate enthusiastically in recreational activities with me such as bicycle excursions/ swimming at the pool and in the natural lake/ camping/ riding snow-machines in the winter/ ski-boating and water skiing/ rafting on a river/ gentle basketball and moderate to brisk walking and jogging together; her resolute determination at self-discipline to nurture within herself a real and genuine affection for me; resolute determination to remain happy in the marriage; cheerfulness; trust in me; 'password cinnamon'; growth together toward greater intimacy in mind and heart; emotional trust; open and transparent in mind and in body; inter-dependence; full acceptance of who I am as I am.
I cannot promise wealth. I am a normal man with a normal life. I can promise that I will be devoted to her and I will cherish her. I will give her my friendship and help. I will protect her and provide for her to the best of my abilities within the bounds of a normal American life-style and economic frame-work. I will be all that I can be for her.
I have never been drunk. I have never done any drugs of any kind - never. I have never smoked. I have never gambled.
But, i have bar-b-qued. I have golfed. I like movies. I do swim and i work-out at the gymnasium regularly. I do go camping and for long drives in the mountains or the desert.
Ideal match description:
I hope for a lady who has her interests and she wishes to share these interests with her husband. I wish that she will wish to tell me of her thoughts always and to show me her efforts in her work and hobbies or any other activities. I like conversation. I wish that she will speak with me and wish to share much time together. She has to TRUST me. TRUST in me; Not her parents,; Not her brother; Not her children; Trust me. Trust means: believing that I will do what is good for her; I will do what is best for her; I am telling her the truth; I have her best interests at my heart; I am her partner (Not anyone else); I will do what is good for her and never harmful for her; Trusting that I am faithful. She must want to GIVE of herself to me. I hope she will be mature and yet still have innocence. She should be realistic about love and humanity. I am human...only almost perfect. I wish that she will believe in Jesus and have an internal commitment to do what Jesus teaches in the Bible. I very much prefer the woman with a large frame. I like her to have wide hips (broad) and broad shoulders. Curvy and shapely. I admire the muscular, shapely legs. I enjoy shapely ladies with healthy weight, not thin, not showing bones. I am attracted by beautiful skin. I wish to emphasize that I prefer the lady who has a good bone frame, probably larger than she wishes to be, but I prefer comfort and strength. I do not like frail , small women. I very much am attracted to the big and strong lady who has a feminine mind. She is tender inside her heart and she feels herself feminine and delicate. I like her outer appearance to be strong and her inner soul to be delicate and feminine. I wish this because I so enjoy to hug her and I enjoy the more of her to feel, the better. I am a healthy and passionate man, and I will feel very strongly toward her to kiss and to hug her often, the more beautiful she becomes to me, the more I will wish to express my admiration toward her through this physical closeness. It is this physical love that is most fulfilling for me.I will be unhappy and I will feel unloved without it. i wish for her to be happy in this activity too.
My languages skills:
English: I am advanced in every skill Russian: I can read and write but can't speak yet French: I can read and write with a dictionary but can't speak