If you contact me, please know that I am not going to pay for a conversation with you because I have no way of knowing whether or not you're real.

If you would like to invite me to speak with you and pay for me to respond to your letters, please let me know beforehand, and if I agree, I will repay you the fee when I see that you are real.--This is my only issue with paying, the fact that I cannot know if you are real or someone working for theh site, or trying to get me to send you money. If you are a real person, reading this right now, maybe it sounds pretty crazy that I could come to this site and say these things but actually, you can see for yourself that there are A LOT of scammers on these kinds of site, if you just go to and look up Russian or Ukrainian scammers. Thousands! So, sorry if my message bothers you or gives you the impression that I am mean. I am just being cautious.

And, letters not even addressing these points will usually be the first I ignore.

Other than this intrusive couple of paragraphs above, I am, in my opinion, a nice person. I am very persistent when I want something. This can be bad and good depending on the situation. I always try to treat other people with respect and, for example, I do not believe so much in 'good' people and 'bad' par se, rather, conditioned people and un/educated or un/guided people. I am not a religious person. This means that the worst a person can be, in my mind, is confused or handicapped or maybe brought up in really unhealthy circumstances. This to me makes more sense than people who are 'bad' or 'good'.--I guess this is a bit of a window into how I am. Of course, this does not mean that I lack taste 😃

In terms of love, well, I guess we are all lovers in our own ways. I consider myself a deep lover and someone who is very affectionate and sensitive and present. Very attentive to the other person.

I cannot say I do not care about how you are, but the basics to me are that you are beautiful, nice, and not unhealthy. I am not looking for someone to cook my meals and do my dirty laundry. Like most adults, I would hope, I do my own laundry and cook my own meals. I pay my own bills and, as you can see, type my own letters. I have no interest in finding some slave housewife. If ever I am fortunate enough to have a family, a mother's role would be decided mutually, just like my role. I would like to have written that I am simply searching for love with a beautiful lady, but that might have sounded a bit too straightforward.