I work in I.T. Am Caucasian, rarely drink, don't smoke , don't get too much a chance to read anything other than technical articles - though I would like to. Boredom is a state of mind and because I never get bored - I have an interesting life. I have lots of interests but no time to pursue them it seems.

This I cannot answer at all. Your heart knows when the connection is there - so to try and guess what sort of person is a good match is impossible before meeting them. You know it when you feel it - no question about that. And the connection can't be forced so that's why it's difficult to do over the Net!